Frequently Asked Questions
Question: What exactly is The Healing Lesbian?
The Healing Lesbian is a safe space and community for women who love women (Queer, Lesbians, Bi, Trans, Non-Binary), and in this space, you will find many opportunities for personal growth, professional growth and get an opportunity to connect with other women from around the world. There are meetup opportunities, helpful and interactive blogs, a community forum (safe space), and an opportunity to work one-on-one with the creator of this space - who is a published author, life coach and mental health therapist. It’s a place to grow, have engaging conversations and FUN!
Question: I see there is a community forum, what can I find there?
In a world where mainstream social media often misses the mark, we’ve created something different. The forum is an intentional, private space designed exclusively for people in the LGBT+ community who are single or part of a couple who are ready to invest in meaningful relationships, personal growth, and authentic community.
This is more than just a forum. It’s a supportive ecosystem where you can be seen, heard, and celebrated—without judgment, algorithms, or distractions. There is a monthly membership fee of $19.99 - this protects our privacy (spammers won’t pay to have access to you) and there are multiple other benefits to this members-only community!
Your membership includes access to:
1. Personalized Experience
Customizable Profiles 📸: Add your personal touch with photos, bios, and signatures that reflect who you are. Share your pronouns and express yourself exactly how you want to be seen.
Safe & Private Environment 🔒: This is a secure, ad-free space away from the noise of social media. Only members can access the community, ensuring privacy and a sense of belonging.
2. Connect & Engage
Chat with Like-Minded Women 💬: Whether you're here to make new friends or meet someone special, you can connect with others who share your experiences and interests in a supportive space.
Access to Diverse Discussions 💡: From love and relationships to personal growth, LGBTQ+ rights, and beyond – there’s a variety of topics to explore with fellow members.
💬 A private, members-only forum for real conversations and shared experiences
🎥 Live Zoom events including speed dating nights, personal development workshops, and relationship support circles
💞 Specialized support for couples, including communication workshops and connection-building exercises
🖤 A dedicated space for navigating breakups, healing, and moving forward with confidence
💌 Private Messaging Between Members:
Easily connect with other members 1-on-1 to ask questions, share ideas, or collaborate — always with respect and community guidelines in mind.
3. Expert Guidance & Support
Weekly & Monthly Zoom Sessions 🎥: Join live calls with the site owner – a therapist and coach – who will provide expert insights, advice, and guidance on everything from relationships to self-care and personal growth.
Breakup Bootcamp 💔: Heal from a breakup with the support of a structured program designed to help you move forward, rebuild confidence, and embrace new opportunities.
Couples Meet-ups
It’s not all serious, there will be game nights and wine down wednesdays
4. Fun & Empowering Activities
Speed Dating 💘: Interested in meeting someone? Get the chance to connect with other members in a fun, structured speed dating format – it’s a safe, low-pressure way to meet like-minded individuals.
Wine Down Wednesdays 🍷: Wind down with a casual, fun group chat where you can share stories, sip wine (or your drink of choice), and bond over shared experiences. It's a chance to relax and feel connected after a long week.
5. Accountability & Growth
Personal Development Challenges 💪: Whether it's breaking old habits, building self-esteem, or navigating life changes, you’ll be part of a community that encourages growth and celebrates your wins.
Therapeutic Resources 📚: Access content, exercises, and guides from a professional therapist and coach that will help you navigate relationships, self-worth, and emotional health.
6. Exclusive & Supportive Community
Our Space 👭: A safe haven for women who love women (or whomever you identify as), no judgment, no pressure, just genuine connection. Share your experiences, ask questions, and seek advice without fear of discrimination or exclusion.
Build Lifelong Friendships 🌈: Make lasting connections that extend beyond the screen – connect with women from all walks of life who are here to support you through your journey.
7. Be Part of Something Bigger
Create and Share Resources 📝: Help others by sharing your experiences, wisdom, and creative ideas. Contribute to building a truly inclusive community where everyone's voice matters.
A Community You Can Trust 🤝: This isn’t just a forum, it’s a movement. You’ll have a front-row seat in shaping a space where authenticity is celebrated, and every member’s identity is honored.
Question: After I sign up for the forum, what are the next steps?
Sign up for the private group forum
Receive verification email
Sign in on the forum with the username and password that you created (after the verification / welcome email)
Click “Subscribe,” and you will be guided to PayPal to make your payment
Return to the forum, sign in, customize your profile, and HAVE FUN!!
Question: What are the benefits of having a licensed therapist as a life coach, relationship coach, or empowerment coach?
Unlike traditional coaches, a licensed therapist is trained to understand the root causes of emotional blocks, patterns, and behaviors—helping you move beyond surface-level advice to create real, lasting change, in addition, you receive:
🧠 Deeper Psychological Insight
Therapists are trained to understand human behavior, trauma, and emotional patterns, so they can help you go beneath surface-level goals and create lasting change.
🛠️ Tools Rooted in Science
They bring evidence-based techniques from therapy (like CBT, mindfulness, or attachment theory) to your coaching sessions, which can make the process more effective and grounded.
🎯 Goal-Focused with Emotional Support
Unlike traditional therapy, coaching focuses more on action and results — but with a therapist-coach, you get the best of both worlds: progress and personal depth.
🧱 Stronger Boundaries & Ethics
Licensed professionals are held to a strict code of ethics and confidentiality, so you’re protected and respected in your growth journey.
💬 Skilled in Communication & Conflict
In relationship or empowerment coaching, a therapist’s experience in guiding tough conversations, resolving conflict, or healing emotional wounds is a huge asset.
🧘♀️ Trauma-Aware Coaching
If past experiences are affecting your present life or relationships, a therapist-coach can recognize and safely navigate that — something many traditional coaches aren't equipped to handle.
Question: What is the difference between therapy and coaching?
Therapy focuses on healing. It often explores past experiences, emotional wounds, and patterns that may be holding you back. The goal is to help you understand yourself on a deeper level, process unresolved issues, and create emotional well-being. Therapy is especially helpful if you're struggling with anxiety, trauma, depression, or relationship challenges that stem from past experiences.
Coaching, on the other hand, is future-focused. It’s about helping you set goals, build confidence, and create actionable steps to move forward in life. Coaching is great when you’re feeling stuck, want to level up, or need guidance and accountability to reach your personal or professional goals.
Question: Can I speak with India one-on-one?
Absolutely! You can engage with India in our community forum or if you want to speak with India one-on-one, check out our coaching tab!
Question: What kind of members-only opportunities are coming up?
How to become a published author
Break-up bootcamp
Business Coaching
Couples Coaching
Much more!